Friendship

"...he who refreshes others will himself be refreshed."  Proverbs 11:25

One of the advantages of the "what now" age is the wealth of friends that have been gathered over the years.  I have been refreshed this morning, walking and having breakfast with two of my most treasured blessings.  We burned a few calories, ate a few more than we burned, and shared our hopes and concerns for those we love the most in this world.  I am truly refreshed.

"A friend loves at all times..."  Proverbs 17:17

Saturday, I had breakfast with my best friend.  We have known each other since she was five and I was six.  That has been more than a few years.  On the morning that my daddy died 13 years ago (can that be?) I told my husband that there was no longer anyone living on earth who thought I was perfect.  Although she knows better, my best friend treats me as though she thinks I am perfect.  Everybody deserves a daddy like that.  Everybody needs a friend like that.  I always feel truly loved when I spend time with her.

"A cheerful heart is good medicine..."  Proverbs 17:22

Last Thursday night, "he who wishes to remain unnamed on FB" and I had dinner with friends that we had not seen in quite some time.  I have been experiencing a string of blue days.  I do not know why.  I do not enjoy the blueness.  But, Thursday night I got caught up with my most joyful friends.  We laughed and joked and enjoyed a delicious meal together.  It was excellent medicine, and my heart was made more cheerful.

"...do not forsake your friend...."  Proverbs 27:10  

And so, as I ponder having arrived at this "what now" age, I have great appreciation for the many friendships I have garnered on the journey. From my 80 something let's-get-a-tatto buddy (a story for another day) who once said she would come to my house anything time I asked, even if I was serving "cow patties," to my much younger and wise friend who, when I became angry on his behalf after someone had anonymously and visciously attacked him replied, "I can't let someone else's anger cause me to feel badly."  I pray that I am a friend worth having.

Thank you, Lord, for the blessing of my friends.

blessings,